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		<title>Don&#8217;t Look Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 20:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A guy from North Carolina who worked at Home Depot as a credit manager just got a new job: As lead singer of his all-time favorite band, Boston!   On his MySpace page he had posted several samples of him singing Boston songs karaoke style. When someone heard the songs and suggested he should send [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=51&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>A guy from North Carolina who worked at Home Depot as a credit manager just got a new job: As lead singer of his all-time favorite band, Boston!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>On his MySpace page he had posted several samples of him singing Boston songs karaoke style. When someone heard the songs and suggested he should send them to Boston&#8217;s management, he did, using an email address provided by the same person.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>When Tom Scholz, one of the band&#8217;s founding members, heard the songs playing through his wife&#8217;s computer, he said he could&#8217;ve sworn it was Brad Delp, their original singer who passed away recently. Only when he turned the volume way up did he realize they were karaoke versions of their music.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>He immediately got in touch with the guy and now the Home Depot manager will be managing lead vocals on Boston&#8217;s summer tour and on a new album with them in the fall.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Isn&#8217;t that an amazing story? It reminds me of what it says in Isaiah 43:18,19: &#8220;<em>Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up..</em></span><span>.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>To quote one of Boston&#8217;s biggest hits, &#8220;Don&#8217;t Look Back.&#8221; You never know when a new level of Better Life will break for you.</span></p>
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		<title>Wait of the World</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 21:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you ever get those food cravings that just stick with you? For me, lately I have been haunted by the thought of ice cream. So the other night after we had eaten an amazing manicotti dinner my wife made, she tackled the dishes while I drove to Baskin Robbins to score some mint chocolate [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=50&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Do you ever get those food cravings that just stick with you? For me, lately I have been haunted by the thought of ice cream. So the other night after we had eaten an amazing manicotti dinner my wife made, she tackled the dishes while I drove to Baskin Robbins to score some mint chocolate chip and nutty coconut.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Evidently half the world was in need of a cold sugary fix too because when I got there, the line was out the door and wrapped around the building. The massive turn-out was because they were having an ice cream sale, selling scoops for .31 cents each.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>You&#8217;ve heard the saying that good things come to those who wait? Well, I wasn&#8217;t willing to wait over an hour for ice cream, so I didn&#8217;t get the good things. Instead I dreamed of double scoops all night.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Something that IS worth the wait however, is waiting on God. Isaiah 40:31 says, <em>&#8220;But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.&#8221;</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>In that verse &#8216;wait&#8217; means to have hopeful expectation. When we pray, we can be empowered with hope, fully expecting to (BE)TTER because God always answers us right on time.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Even though, to quote Tom Petty, &#8220;the waiting is the hardest part,&#8221; we can remain undaunted by what look like delays because God&#8217;s good things are worth the wait.</span></p>
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		<title>My Space</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 21:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day I was telling a group of people about when, as teenagers, 5 friends and I piled into the two-seats of my 5-speed Pontiac Fiero and drove around town. Needless to say, we were crammed in there pretty tight. As the driver, I barely had enough space to shift gears or even turn [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=49&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>The other day I was telling a group of people about when, as teenagers, 5 friends and I piled into the two-seats of my 5-speed Pontiac Fiero and drove around town. Needless to say, we were crammed in there pretty tight. As the driver, I barely had enough space to shift gears or even turn the wheel to navigate.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>At times that&#8217;s how it seems in certain parts in our lives: we feel cramped, confined and restricted, in desperate need of some elbow room. Thankfully, during our confinement we can have confidence knowing that God is tuned in to what we&#8217;re going through and will do something about it if we ask. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>There&#8217;s a great example of that in Exodus 3:7,8: <em>&#8220;You can be sure I have seen the misery of my people in Egypt. I have heard their cries for deliverance from their harsh slave drivers. Yes, I am aware of their suffering. So I have come to rescue them from the Egyptians and lead them out of Egypt into their own good and spacious land.&#8221;</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>God sees us, hears us and knows how much we can handle. He sees when we have developed from being bitter into being better through dealing with that situation. Then, in the nick of time, He snatches us out and places us where we have more than enough room to move!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>&#8220;HELP&#8221; is a prayer that is always answered.</span></p>
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		<title>Consider the Possibilities</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 08:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The athletic apparel company Adidas has a slogan that goes right along with our (BE)TTER mentality: &#8220;Impossible is Nothing.&#8221;   In the same vein, long before running shoes and sweat pants, what Jesus said while talking to His disciples in John 14:10-13 is what I believe for our lives   &#8220;The words I say to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=48&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>The athletic apparel company Adidas has a slogan that goes right along with our (BE)TTER mentality: &#8220;Impossible is Nothing.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>In the same vein, long before running shoes and sweat pants, what Jesus said while talking to His disciples in John 14:10-13 is what I believe for our lives </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>&#8220;The words I say to you are not just my own. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing His work. Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the miracles themselves. I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father.&#8221;</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>As we ask and keep on asking God to be active in our lives, ANYTHING we ask is possible. Miracles beyond anything that we have dared to imagine are possible.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>If you have something, or many things, in your life right now that seems like there is no change in sight, stop thinking it&#8217;s impossible and dare to imagine the possibilities.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>It doesn&#8217;t matter in what area we&#8217;re asking for some sort of a miracle, Jesus didn&#8217;t put restrictions on the asking, He said &#8220;WHATEVER you ask.&#8221; And I believe it &#8211; for me and for you.</span></p>
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		<title>The Need for Speed</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 07:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have often said that what you meditate on will manifest for you, which is basically another way of saying what Proverbs 23:7 says, &#8220;As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.&#8221;   I read a story about a man who had so many speeding tickets that he got a letter from the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=46&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I have often said that what you meditate on will manifest for you, which is basically another way of saying what Proverbs 23:7 says, <em>&#8220;As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.&#8221;</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I read a story about a man who had so many speeding tickets that he got a letter from the California Department of Motor Vehicles stating that if he got one more ticket, his license would be suspended for a year. It also suggested that he meet with one of their state psychologists. He thought it couldn&#8217;t hurt, so he made an appointment.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>During the meeting at the DMV, the issue of having so many tickets was brought up, to which the man with all the tickets replied, &#8220;Everyone gets speeding tickets.&#8221; &#8220;Not true,&#8221; said the psychologist. &#8220;The average person may get only one ticket every four years.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>The man with a lead foot was amazed, he had thought everyone was like him, amassing a stack of violations. But he realized at that moment what he had believed was wrong and destructive. He quickly changed his mind that day and from then on stopped getting speeding tickets.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Think about it: Are you unhappy with certain things that are happening in your life? What do you, not just hope, but really need to (BE)TTER? Ask yourself, what am I thinking that may need to be changed? Then change it&#8230;FAST!</span></p>
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		<title>Internal Affairs</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 07:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Life Improvement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[animated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad decisions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compulsions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[discouragement]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all go through periods of time when we feel like our efforts to be a better person are at a standstill. We may have made bad decisions, people let us down or we just did some stupid things. Discouragement bordering on depression can set in causing us to wonder if we even want to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=45&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>We all go through periods of time when we feel like our efforts to be a better person are at a standstill. We may have made bad decisions, people let us down or we just did some stupid things. Discouragement bordering on depression can set in causing us to wonder if we even want to try any more. It feels like the most tumultuous place to be is inside of us.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>During times like that, where can we find the motivation we need to continue the effort to be all we can be? These verses in Galations 5:16-18 from The Message Bible offer us a look inside ourselves to see what&#8217;s really going on:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>&#8220;My counsel is this, live freely, animated and motivated by God&#8217;s Spirit. Then you won&#8217;t feed the compulsions of selfishness. For there is a root of sinful self-interest in us that is at odds with a free spirit, just as the free spirit is incompatible with selfishness. These two ways of life are antithetical, so that you cannot live at times one way and at times another way according to how you feel on any given day. Why not choose to be led by the Spirit and so escape the erratic compulsions.&#8221;</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>So if we make God&#8217;s Spirit our own internal motivational speaker, then we become free spirits &#8211; steady, animated and full of life? I like the sound of that, don&#8217;t you?</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Some might say, &#8220;But that&#8217;s not my cup of tea. I just can&#8217;t get into God.&#8221; That&#8217;s okay. If you&#8217;ll just take your mountain of troubles to Him, asking for help, He&#8217;ll get into you.</span></p>
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		<title>Higher Motivation</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 07:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A psychiatrist named Viktor Frankl who lived through Nazi death camps said this in his book &#8216;Man&#8217;s Search for Meaning:&#8217; &#8220;He who has a WHY to live can bear with almost any HOW.&#8221;   Dr. Frankl found that every day of being in those camps he was able to face the HOW of extreme cold, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=44&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>A psychiatrist named Viktor Frankl who lived through Nazi death camps said this in his book &#8216;Man&#8217;s Search for Meaning:&#8217; &#8220;He who has a WHY to live can bear with almost any HOW.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Dr. Frankl found that every day of being in those camps he was able to face the HOW of extreme cold, malnutrition and possible death because he was motivated by the WHY of wanting to see his family again.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>That makes me think, what&#8217;s our motivation? Who are we living for? Why should we (BE)TTER?</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Proverbs 16:2,3 says, <em>&#8220;All a man&#8217;s ways seem innocent to him, but motives are weighed by the Lord. Commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed.&#8221;</em></span><span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Man, I want my motives to be right. I want God to be proud of me. Like most people, I want to be successful for the good of my family and my future, but God&#8217;s approval of all I do in every part of my public and private life should always be the highest priority.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>To keep the motivation to (BE)TTER more about His pride than ours, we need to check our motives with Him every day, making sure our plans are in His plan.</span></p>
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		<title>The Sweet 16</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 23:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Life Improvement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bad Habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breaking bad habits]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Healthy Habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[passion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sweet 16]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unwanted behavior]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[For those of us breaking bad habits and unwanted behavior patterns, we have to remain active in designing our lives.  We simply cannot allow the past to overwhelm our present or derail our future.  We can&#8217;t just be passive, letting life do whatever it wants with us.  If we do what we&#8217;ve always done, (which [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=43&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<div>For those of us breaking bad habits and unwanted behavior patterns, we have to remain active in designing our lives.  We simply cannot allow the past to overwhelm our present or derail our future.  We can&#8217;t just be passive, letting life do whatever it wants with us.  If we do what we&#8217;ve always done, (which in many people&#8217;s case is NOTHING) then things don&#8217;t get better, they seem to get worse.  If we truly want to (BE)TTER for ourselves, our family and our future, we have to do something about it.</div>
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<div>So with that in mind, here are 16 practical suggestions for replacing bad habits with healthy ones.</div>
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<div> 1. MAKE LIKE MOSES &#8211; For a time, separate yourself from the people, surroundings and circumstances that contribute to repeating bad behavior.</div>
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<div> 2. RECRUIT A HEALING HELPER &#8211; Having someone close to you who is trustworthy, believes in you and encourages your efforts will further empower you to (BE)TTER.</div>
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<div> 3. CHECK YOUR MIRROR &#8211; Regularly look at yourself to get honest about where you are right now.  Do you like what you see?  What adjustments need to be made?</div>
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<div> 4. REASSIGN PAST PAIN &#8211; Decide not to allow the past to discourage you but let it be a marker to encourage you about how far you&#8217;ve come and what you&#8217;ve learned from those experiences.</div>
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<div> 5. READ! READ! READ! &#8211; Find books on subjects that interest you and develop the desire to read for knowledge and sometimes just for fun.</div>
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<div> 6. KEEP ON KEEPIN&#8217; ON &#8211; Realize there are no magic cures to make bad habits disappear overnight.  Life is an endurance sport but the prizes are worth the pain.</div>
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<div> 7. REJECT THE REJECTION SUGGESTIONS &#8211; Eject the thoughts of unworthiness and ugliness and replace them with quality memories, experiences and relationships.</div>
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<div> 8. DON&#8217;T BE A DWELLER &#8211; The mind can only consider a limited number of issues at one time.  Don&#8217;t dwell on the past.  Rather, contemplate the new quality of life.</div>
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<div> 9. RESPOND, DON&#8217;T REACT &#8211; Practice keeping your spirit in the right spot &#8211; on top and in control of your body, mind and emotions.</div>
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<div>10. ACT AS IF &#8211; You ARE a work of art, so act as if you are valuable.  Take good care of yourself.  Carry yourself with confidence and expect goodness to follow you.</div>
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<div>11. REACH OUT &#8211; To help yourself, help others.  When you give of your time, talent, energy and money to invest in a cause, you&#8217;ll see yourself get better.</div>
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<div>12. GET GRATEFUL &#8211; Deciding to be thankful for what you have will take you off &#8220;Victim Island&#8221; and put you back into reality to see how good you actually have it.</div>
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<div>13. HAVE A HOBBY &#8211; Hobbies will help move your mind away from somber issues, stimulate creativity, acquire new knowledge and form new relationships.</div>
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<div>14. PURSUE PASSION &#8211; By practicing the basic necessities of daily prayer, Bible reading and Godly fellowship, your passion will present itself from inside of you.</div>
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<div>15. LAUGH. A LOT. &#8211; Doctors say that the inner organs are given a massage during a hearty laugh.  The Bible says laughing is like medicine.  Laugh to live long.</div>
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<div>16. SMILE &#8211; Notify your facial muscles that you have decided to be a shining, contagious example of what God can do in a person&#8217;s life.  Go ahead, smile and the world will smile with you.</div>
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<div>There you have it.  16 Inspired Ideas for Better Life.  </div>
<div>Try one or try &#8216;em all to (BE)TTER.  Let me know how it goes.</div>
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		<title>Come Clean</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 18:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Life Improvement]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When I bought a newspaper this morning, the cashier charged me only 50 cents instead of 75. When I told her the actual price, she was surprised because she had been only charging 50 cents all morning long and nobody had said anything. She thanked me for being honest, then took my extra quarter. I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=41&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I bought a newspaper this morning, the cashier charged me only 50 cents instead of 75. When I told her the actual price, she was surprised because she had been only charging 50 cents all morning long and nobody had said anything. She thanked me for being honest, then took my extra quarter.</p>
<p>I had thought for a split second about not saying anything but man, I hate feeling guilty about something! I know it was only a quarter, but what if next time it&#8217;s a dollar? Or a hundred dollars?</p>
<p>What if it&#8217;s not money but I know that I got away with something that wasn&#8217;t right? Those things can add up, dulling and dirtying our right and wrong detector, also known as the conscience.</p>
<p>Hebrews 10:22 says, &#8220;Let us draw near to God with sincere hearts in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience.&#8221;</p>
<p>Even when we know we haven&#8217;t done the right thing, we can still go to God knowing that He will forgive us and wash the heaviness away if we let Him. No matter how big or little something is that we feel like we get away with, nothing is worth the weight of a guilty conscience.</p>
<p>Like we learned in kindegarten, honesty is always the best policy, especially if we want to (BE)TTER.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Out running yesterday I saw something unusual. As I spotted a fellow runner approaching, I noticed she was struggling with each step. When I got close enough to give her the runner&#8217;s wave, she smiled and weakly returned the wave. The interesting part was that when she waved, I saw a pack of cigarettes in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bebetterblog.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2351332&amp;post=40&amp;subd=bebetterblog&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Out running yesterday I saw something unusual. As I spotted a fellow runner approaching, I noticed she was struggling with each step. When I got close enough to give her the runner&#8217;s wave, she smiled and weakly returned the wave.</p>
<p>The interesting part was that when she waved, I saw a pack of cigarettes in her hand! Then I realized why she seemed to be laboring so hard, she was probably out of breath and hadn&#8217;t built up her wind yet.</p>
<p>Now you may think I&#8217;m going to lecture about the dangers of smoking, but I&#8217;m not. Granted, smoking and running don&#8217;t seem to be the most effective combination, but the point is, at least she was running in between puffs. She gets an &#8220;A&#8221; for effort in my book.</p>
<p>Many people thinking about the decision to (BE)TTER in life are waiting until the day they have conquered other bad habits before even attempting to improve in another area. The problem is, that day never comes and the life they have dreamed of seems to move further and further away.</p>
<p>That kind of thinking reminds me of a saying I&#8217;ve heard since I was a kid: God catches His fish before He cleans them. Basically that means we don&#8217;t have to fix everything on our own. Just come to God, just as we are, messes and all. He&#8217;ll take us in, love and transform us, making us better and better and better.</p>
<p>My deal is, even if we&#8217;ve not perfected every area of our lives, don&#8217;t let that stop other efforts to get better.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s do what we&#8217;re able.<br />
God will do the rest.</p>
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